Four Steps to Healing Your Relationship With Money

This full moon energy is shining light on some shadows in my heart. I could feel it rising in my heart. I could physically feel it. They are there. HIding. Just minor little shadows but they were beginning to wiggle around and bubble up.

How will I respond to them now? Normally I let them fester for days.
But not anymore. I don’t want to feel this way. It only takes me a few hours to shift now.

So I turn that full moon light to shine on them fully?
What are these fears? What am I feeling? Are they mine or the collective?

I feel a frustration. I feel angry. I feel it is not just me, but many feel this way.
Things feel stuck. They are not moving forward the way intended. There is a scarcity energy, a feeling of lack.

A feeling of not being supported by the Universe.
Why? I work hard. I am trying to stay connected. I listen for guidance. I follow my heart. Why does it have to be so hard?

Sound familiar?
The biggest fear: I can not follow my dream because the financial abundance is just not there. I will have to give up on my dreams.

You are not alone with this fear. And when that fear bubbles up from time to time, the memories of feeling unloved, unsupported all come flooding back. I know, I have been there many times.

I’ve wanted to take these memories and pull them from my heart, the way Gandalf pulled his memories from his brain and dropped them in the cauldron, in Harry Potter.

I just wanted these shadows gone from my heart. I wanted to let the light in. I wanted to hand them over to the Universe.

Yet I was angry with the Universe. Our relationship with this money issue has been very rocky. I often felt like the Universe was holding out on me. And like an arguement with a lover, I wanted to be in the loving arms of the Universe, but my ego would hold me back.

My mind would yell, “I’ve been doing my part! Where have you helped!” And these words made my heart ache more. Evidently wrong direction.

“Help me release these hurts so light can flow in. Help me feel abundant with love and support.” This feels better. The right direction. “Show me. Please show me.”

I am sharing with you what I have experienced and learned over the years of co-creating with that divine energy flow and how I have struggled with money, lack and scarcity over and over in my life.

This I have learned from A Course in Miracles: When any relationship is not working, it has to experience a radical shift of the goal of that relationship.

If your relationship with money is not peaceful and loving then there is a need to re-examine the goal.

If you were dating money, you probably would have broken up with it a long time ago.

Money has been unpredictable, unreliable, hard to get, loving at times and then abandoning at other times, elusive, non-commital, even abusive in leading you on, giving you hope and then snatching it away again. Has it turned its back on you when you needed it the most? Yes, if money was my lover I would have left it long ago.

But every relationship involves two. What is your goal in the relationship? Do you just want to use money? Does everything in your world revolve around getting more from money? To get groceries, you need that next paycheque. To have some fun or go on a holiday, you either have to hoard money, or rent it out with credit. Have you been a good lover to money? Have you treasured it, respected it and held it within a holy love?

A Course in Miracles says: The meaning of a holy relationship is the expression of the holy instant in living in this world. And the holy instant is the moment you let go of the ego’s drama.

When any relationship allows love to be the goal, rather than the ego, then each person (aspect) in the relationship can rise up to their greatest potential. But when your goals are not aligned with love, even when we try to believe they are, the relationship will be tumultuous.

How can you apply this to your relationship with money? What is your ultimate goal in your relationship with money? Control? Do you want to control it?

Money is energy and can not be controlled. But it can be attracted.
When you align with love money flows and is attracted to you.
Let’s be honest, who isn’t attracted to love?

Here are the steps to attract more money into your life:

1.  Clarify your goal for the relationship – what do I want to come of this? What is it for? The clarification of the goal belongs at the beginning to determine the outcome.

2.  Stand in faith. Align with love and trust, let go of the gripping. See it done. As a course in miracles says, “Only what you have not given, can be lacking in any situation…Your faith must grow to meet the goal that has been set. The goal’s reality will call this forth, for you will see that peace and faith will not come separately.”

3.  Treat every form of abundance that flows into your life with reverence and respect. I hear over and over from my guides, “Make every act a sacred act.”

4.  Come back to your goal over and over to remain in the communion with your intention.

This will bring your relationship with money back into a beautiful, loving space. Be sure to watch the Abundance Party video here to learn even more abundance tips!

Create your life with intention!

Love Janice